Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Trend to stay away from: CHEATING MEN!

Although this is not a fashion post, all of my readers, in some way can relate.  Boy, a man is the best and worst liar I have ever seen.  They are geniuses at role playing to make you believe they are a man of God and only care about family. 

Never put anything past a man.  My mother-in-law always told me, all men cheat, and we as women just need to accept that, but baaayyyybeeee I ain't the one!

Marriages often break down on account of husbands not being loyal to their wives. Wives these days are not accepting their husbands showing interest and building up a relationship with another woman. They expect total commitment from their partners. Most of the time the wives are busy with household chores and children and they get little time for their husbands. Yet, whatever time they get they would like to spend it with their husbands.

Why do husbands cheat? After all, don’t they have any commitment to their family? Here are some reasons, why men seek the company of another woman, despite taking care of their wife.

Top 10 Reasons Men Cheat:

  • Boredom – Men tend to get bored of their married life. Life, at times, become monotonous. The wife may be too involved with household chores and children and may not have the time for him. He is in search of excitement and finds it in another woman.
  • A roving eye – Men are supposed to have a roving eye. They like looking and admiring other women. They like to taste something “new” and “different.”
  • A nagging wife – Many husbands get fed up with a nagging wife at home and prefer the loving and caring company of another woman.
  • A neglected wife – Many women do not take care of themselves. They go out of shape. They lose out on their figure. At home, they do not take care of their appearance or dress up properly. Naturally, a man gets fed up with his wife and prefers a better looking woman.
  • Sexual incompatibility is also a reason why men go in for another woman. A few years down the line the husband may feel his emotional and physical needs are not being met and tends to seek the company of another woman. The husband often finds an outlet for his physical and emotional needs by having an affair with another woman.
  • To try out something new is often a reason given by the husband for indulging in an extra-marital affair. He often feels he needs a change of scene and would like to spend time with someone who is “different” and perhaps “more exciting”.
  • Easy access to female companionship is another factor which provides an opportunity for a husband to have an extra-marital affair. Often on business trips, he tends to take advantage of being with another female colleague and enters into a relationship with her.
  • Male ego is also another factor for men to cheat upon their wives. Husbands often feel superior about being a man and like to focus on their “macho” qualities of being able to attract another woman.
  • Peer pressure also encourages a man to cheat upon his wife. Some friends may cajole him into trying out something “new”. They often introduce him to other females with whom he can spend more time.
  • A wife paying too much attention to children and household chores often forces a man to go in for relationships outside marriage. He feels neglected. He wants more attention and since he is not getting it at home he prefers to get it from an outsider.
Men do cheat on their wives. This is a harsh reality some wives have to face up to. At times, the wife could be responsible for the situation, sometimes the man himself is found guilty of such an act. Several marriages fall apart on account of extra-marital affairs of the husband.


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